Download your FREE Guide: Understanding the Effects of Divorce on Children
If you’re worried about how your divorce could affect your child, and you want to know to handle it, you’ll want this guide.
- Statistics about the effects of divorce on children
- The impact of high conflict divorces
- Common mistakes parents make
- How your child may think about your divorce
- Plus, I’ll show you how to access the E-Book: The 10 Biggest Mistakes Separating or Divorcing Parents Make and How to Avoid them.
See the Right Expert for Your Child
“If you need legal advice, see a solicitor. If you need tax advice, see an accountant. So therefore, see the expert for the most important aspect of your life – your child.”
Are you desperate to make sure you don’t damage your child or children?
Do you want to help them adjust well to your divorce?
- Feel guilty the divorce is somehow their fault.
- Secretly hope you’ll get back together.
- Be unnaturally ‘good.’ hoping you’ll get back together again.
- Or behave badly, to show you how unhappy they feel.
- Feel embarrassed and different from their friends.
- Comfort you when you’re crying, and act too much like a ‘parent.’
- Be clingy, and want to be constantly at your side.
- Stop sleeping well.
- Think they must ‘earn’ the love of one parent, so they won’t be completely on their own.
- Feel helpless and upset, caught in the middle of the fusses and arguments.
- Cry, and feel down and miserable.
- Want to love both parents, but feel they must take ‘sides’ against the guilty parent.
- Feel that loving both parents is being ‘disloyal.’
- Feel disbelief that you could do this to them if you really loved them.
- Feel life as they knew it, has been ripped apart.
How is divorce affecting you? Do you feel…
- Overwhelmed, and not always there ‘emotionally’ for your child?
- Guilty, for ruining your child’s chance of a stable home with two parents?
- Anxious, your child childhood may no longer happy and carefree?
- Worried, your divorce could affect your child’s education, friendships or mental health?
- Uncertain, about how much to tell your child about why you’re divorcing?
- Annoyed, about your Ex’s behaviour??
- Concerned, your child sees you crying and upset?
- Apprehensive, about your child getting upset or crying about the divorce?
- Unsure, about how to respond to your child’s reactions and behaviour?
- Disappointed, that you failed at your marriage, and that your child didn’t deserve this?
Do you want…
- To know the best things to say and do to help your child adapt well to your divorce?
- Your child to continue have a happy childhood with two places they can call home.
- A way to discuss your child’s needs with your ex-partner.
- Your child to be protected from negativity and arguments.
- Your child to be able to open up about their emotions and feelings about the divorce.
- Your child to be able to deal with the sadness and pain, and not feel guilty or torn apart.
- Your child to eventually regain their happiness and confidence and know you’re there for them.
- Eventually, for your child to know how to help them adjust to a new partner, step-parent or blended family, if you find someone new.
- Your divorce not to damage your child any more than it needs to.
- To know how to avoid damaging your child for life by your divorce.